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A recent discussion about #inclusivity on one of the goth groups I follow got a bit heated, and the admins pulled the plug. Okay, it happens. Hardly anyone wants people screaming at each other in their virtual living room.

Every subculture I've ever been part of has had the same problem. #Punk, #goth, #science #fiction #fandom, #hackerdom, maybe a few I'm not thinking of at the moment.

#Subcultures are *in general* more accepting and inclusive than society as a whole, yes. People who are seen as weird and scary by the #mainstream find groups of other people who have had the same experience. This leads to groups that welcome refugees of all kinds. All to the good.

Then the idea becomes part of the group's identity. Instead of understanding that people in the group tend to be more tolerant than others because of their experiences, they start assuming that being part of the group automatically *makes* them less prejudiced.

"We can't be racist / sexist / etc., that's a mundane problem!" So when these "mundane" #bigotries turn up in the subculture, as they *inevitably* do, they get swept under the rug.

Yeah, well, you can be, and very often you are. Face it. Deal with it. Be better than the people who made your life hell. Or at the very least, stop acting so hurt and surprised when you get called on your own brand of bullshit.

If you held photos of #Zionists and #Nazis next to each other and told me that corporate needs me to tell them the difference, I'd say they are the same photo.

Let's make this perfectly clear: masks are off, across the board, and if the words "history will be on our side" sounds like hollow right now, we've come to a time when you need to tell your representative to cut the crap.

In #Israel, calls for #genocide have migrated from the margins to the #mainstream
theconversation.com/in-israel-

The ConversationIn Israel, calls for genocide have migrated from the margins to the mainstreamThe Bible contains some explicit genocidal narratives, and over time, some religious Zionists have wielded these stories to advocate for the destruction of the Palestinians.

'Non-#monogamous people are just as happy in their love lives as those with only one partner but are not “significantly” more #sexually satisfied than traditional couples, research suggests.

#Polyamory, #openrelationships and swinging are among the many forms of #consensual non-monogamy. Polyamory has become increasingly #mainstream, with a recent poll showing that one in 25 #Britons have experienced it. A further one in 14 said they would be open to exploring it.'

theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2

The Guardian · Non-monogamous as happy in their love lives as traditional couples – studyBy Nicola Davis