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@Sibshops
The most #Racist #sexist #narcissist on the planet who is a #SerialAdulterer, #ConvictedFelon, #AdjudicatedRapist, and the living embodiment of ALL SEVEN DEADLY SINS declared the day after the #Pope's passing that "NO ONE has done more for #Christianity or ANY religion" than he has.

We're just 98 days into his second term. By #Christmas, he'll be comparing himself to Jesus and bragging about how the Romans NEVER would have crucified HIM has HE of been the #Messiah.

Seriously. 🙄

"When you’re dealing with a #narcissist {1} or otherwise manipulative person, it’s… exhausting, to put it mildly.

"Trying to process the constant lying, the shifting of blame, and the gaslighting is really time and energy intensive, because what they say and do just doesn’t quite add up.

"The good news is, there’s a way to lessen that impact.

"There are a number of models/variants — “Observe don’t absorb,” “FOG (fear, obligation, and guilt)“, and “greyrocking” for three examples — but they all have a similar central concept:

"You do not take what they’re saying personally. You observe it, but you do not absorb it. Instead, you think about how they’re using their words to manipulate you, and, if safe to do so {2}, you may call them on it.

"The point of their words is not to convey information and to increase understanding, but instead to elicit a response from you.…"
ideatrash.net/2025/02/how-to-b

ideatrash · How To Be Less Exhausted By Narcissists
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You wanna pay back the #narcissist in your life? The biggest punishment for a narcissist is being ignored. Do not pay them attention of any kind. Don't let their reality impact yours or only as minimally as possible.

In the world of a narcissist only their reality matters. Your reality is by definition wrong and nothing you do can change that. Their actions are by definition just and good. But what if they do something that's clearly cruel and harmful?

Remember the narcissistic prayer? That. They change their reality so that their actions are now again just and good. And if that means that they have to throw you under the bus they'll not hesitate to do so. They will literally construct false realities in which you are the most vile human being to have ever walked the earth, all in a (largely unconscious!) effort to turn them into a victim who didn't have another choice but to harm you deeply.

Don't let their reality become your reality. Ignore them.

...yall seriously gonna tell me ya cant see that a system so cruel as to require all to come ONLY to them to get what they need to barely be alive...EVEN WHEN THEY TRY TO INDEPENDENTLY SUSTAIN!!!....and still make them beg in starvation if not compliant enough.....IS CALLED SLAVERY!!! #narcissist

...all these other cutesy nicknames are the cracks in the mirror to confuse the truth...

#capitalismIZSLAVERY #democracyIZSLAVERY
#meritocracyIZSLAVERY

.....#sharecropping is a tool of? #SLAVERY!!!

Having to maintain my relationship to the #narcissist that abused me is becoming the biggest challenge of my life. No contact is not an option as we have kids.

I'm processing the emotional abuse I experienced. I'm grieving the woman that never was her. It's a lot of very raw and very intense emotions.

And I'm doing all of that while I need to regularly interact with my abuser. It's a gigantic mind fuck.

I'm reclaiming a lot of my agency by #yellowRocking extensively. Killing her with kindness. Ignoring her emotional baits that are meant to trigger a fight I'd lose anyway. I'm getting #revenge by being my best fucking self. Let the kids see that unconditional kindness is possible while enforcing boundaries.

But I'm not gonna lie. It takes my everything. Being kind to my abuser when everything in me screams for justice is a challenge like no other. #RadicalAcceptance is most definitely non-optional.

I might not win the battles but I will win the war.

This is how the #narcissist in my life #IllegallyOccupies my territory for 2 yrs now. My personal situation matches that of countries globally.

#GifsArtidote: cut off all contact yesterday after saying it will be delivered to his doorstep tuesday
depending on if he continues to #DenyDivergeDeflect & #gaslight or show #accountability will i take action in defence or move on and focus on caring for me
This translates on collective lvl to #SetUltimatums #TakeAction #CutContact #Divest #InvestInUs

Dealing with a (nonviolent!) #narcissist effectively requires you to literally let go of any and all expectations to them. And I mean all of them. You can't expect basic human decency from a predator that wants to devour you.

When you manage to do that they don't know what to do anymore. Because there's nothing left to control you with. Of course sometimes they might have other means of control over you. The best you can do here is to never let them know that you care about anything they have control over. Otherwise they *will* use that to manipulate you into doing their bidding.

Only answer when required. And strictly stick to the facts. No questions. Just decide how you'll act and inform them. No explanation (important!). They will grovel, they will fight you with words, but they can't do shit as long as they don't know what triggers you into a reaction. And then they start to fear you. Because they cannot control you anymore. And they don't want to mess with something that makes them feel fear.

It's amazing once you do inventory with who your friends are, in regards to how they view you. I found out that pretty much most people I thought were my friends threw me under the bus for what happened in 2021 - when I was systematically demoralized and traumatized into #PTSD by an #abusive #narcissist under #abusiveworkingconditions.

One such person I trusted dearly and who I thought knew what was going on had basically also thrown me under the bus, and she did so because she's #misandrist.

#narcissist - ✅ Hvis du sidder overfor en narcissistisk person, hvor grandiositeten fylder det hele, så forhold dig til, hvad er personen plaget af?

Hvorfor har denne person så stort et behov for at fremstå som en fantastisk person? Og svært ved at have nogen tæt på sig?

Er Trump? Nej. Funktionsniveauet kan ikke være væsentligt nedsat, når han er valgt 2 gange som USA’s præsident.

Carsten René Jørgensen er professor i klinisk psykologi. Han har udgivet ’Narcissisme’.

dr.dk/lyd/p1/brinkmanns-briks/

DR LYDBrinkmanns briks | Sådan opfører en narcissist sig | DR LYDI dag spørger jeg om Trump er narcissist!? En god ven af programmet har nemlig skrevet et kæmpeværk om narcissisme og en af mine bibeskæftigelser er at følge Trump i tykt og tyndt. Derfor vil jeg i dag gå et skridt længere end jeg plejer og spørge direkte om Trump er narcissist selvom det er meget forkert som psykolog at fjerndiagnosticere. Programmet vil undervejs gøre dig meget klogere på, hvad narcissisme er for en sygdom og det afslører, at de fleste af os ved utroligt lidt om, hvad en narcissist er. Vært: Svend Brinkmann. Gæst: Carsten Rene Jørgensen, professor i klinisk psykologi på Aarhus Universitet, udøver terapi til personer med personlighedsforstyrrelser ved Skejby Universitetshospital og forfatter til Narcissisme. Tilrettelægger: Christoffer Heide Høyer.
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⬆️ @copter_chief

>>>> I just heard Trump talk about all the countries groveling at his feet. He says it in a voice like he’s having sex.

>>Nations groveling at a #narcissist's feet is better than sex to the narcissist.

#TrumpHump is #Trump's idea of sex — a disgusting public display of love by humping the #US flag.

youtube.com/watch?v=1PW3fuQl1C0